SUB BDSM CHECKLIST

This form is available as a [PDF Checklist] or as a [LibreOffice/Google Docs odt].

The checklist below is a way for your scene partner to get to know you better. Not all items below are necessarily things that your scene partner gets into, or would be a requirement on your part.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:

1. For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
2. For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

• "?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.
• NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
• 0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit your scene partner to do it if it He really wanted it (sometimes called a "soft limit").
• 1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
• 2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
• 3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
• 4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
• 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your scene partner to know in the margin to the right. For example, under "uniforms" you might have a different fetish for military versus police.

Are there any turn-offs or turn-ons not listed above? If so, describe.

Do you own any sex toys, bondage equipment, or other erotica? If so, describe.

What has been your most intense scene involving SM or B&D? Describe.